I always hear parents saying how they aren't hear to be their children's friend. I understand where they're coming from but even I don't agree. You can't tell your child something like that and then expect them to open up to you about their troubles, what went on in their day, etc. I see so many parents do this. They'll provide for their child financially and believes that's all it takes. That's all they need. And then they wonder why their child lack guidance. Of course, the same thing happens when parents try to hard to be their child's level. You can be their friend while still remaining their parent.