I'm glad it's not only me who feels that way. I base things off of vibes and connection too. Talking to him, I didn't feel much connection. The conversation was too dry and felt like small talk (which I hate). I don't believe that things always have to be awkward in the beginning. That may be a reason as to why I wasn't so willing. I also do think a lot of men out here are so thirsty and sometimes to eager to jump into the swing of things.