MelaninMonroe
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Post by MelaninMonroe on Nov 29, 2016 12:25:22 GMT -8
You know I had to make one! I'll start it off properly,
just kidding....just kidding....
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Post by Admin on Nov 29, 2016 21:28:09 GMT -8
Men are....very confusing creatures. I really think women should rule the world, because they PMS more/worse than we do.
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Post by blackonblack on Nov 30, 2016 14:00:50 GMT -8
I'm single. Have been for a minute. I find that men don't know what they want in a woman. They think they want this or that, then when they meet a woman like that they are scared and back off.
Reminds me of a study I read. Men say they want smart women, until they meet one then they pick someone less intelligent. This was a real study, but it's true in other ways as well.
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Post by MelaninMonroe on Nov 30, 2016 18:29:59 GMT -8
Men are....very confusing creatures. I really think women should rule the world, because they PMS more/worse than we do. Men aren't reliable AT ALL. For anything.
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Post by MelaninMonroe on Nov 30, 2016 18:37:23 GMT -8
I'm single. Have been for a minute. I find that men don't know what they want in a woman. They think they want this or that, then when they meet a woman like that they are scared and back off. Reminds me of a study I read. Men say they want smart women, until they meet one then they pick someone less intelligent. This was a real study, but it's true in other ways as well. All of this! I always thought people were being dramatic when they say its hard dating out "there" and finding a good man is hard but its true. It's not only that, but a lot of men I've met just want to eat their cake and have it too. They want to have this woman and that woman. No commitment sounds good to them but they certainly won't tell you that.
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Post by shady81 on Dec 1, 2016 9:46:49 GMT -8
Some men not all are just dumb. I've been single since 2012, because the last guy I was with lied to me about his career position, and I can't stand a liar. There only good for one thing and that's sex and sometimes that's not even good not even their oral game is good. They brag about how well they could put it down but that's even a disappointment.
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Post by Admin on Dec 1, 2016 11:02:49 GMT -8
Some men not all are just dumb. I've been single since 2012, because the last guy I was with lied to me about his career position, and I can't stand a liar. There only good for one thing and that's sex and sometimes that's not even good not even there oral game is good. They brag about how well they could put it down but that's even a disappointment. Well damn! That was major shade
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Post by blackonblack on Dec 1, 2016 12:23:24 GMT -8
I'm single. Have been for a minute. I find that men don't know what they want in a woman. They think they want this or that, then when they meet a woman like that they are scared and back off. Reminds me of a study I read. Men say they want smart women, until they meet one then they pick someone less intelligent. This was a real study, but it's true in other ways as well. All of this! I always thought people were being dramatic when they say its hard dating out "there" and finding a good man is hard but its true. It's not only that, but a lot of men I've met just want to eat their cake and have it too. They want to have this woman and that woman. No commitment sounds good to them but they certainly won't tell you that.
but they expect you to be committed to them, while they hoe around. I'm cool on that. Some men not all are just dumb. I've been single since 2012, because the last guy I was with lied to me about his career position, and I can't stand a liar. There only good for one thing and that's sex and sometimes that's not even good not even there oral game is good. They brag about how well they could put it down but that's even a disappointment. I can't stand a liar either. I don't care how small the lie is, if I catch you lying it'll make me question everything else you've told me. I've known a few people (not always males that I was involved with some were females that I knew but didn't consider to be friends) who lied about where they were from, another who lied about their age, another who lied about their name. Granted lying about your name is big, but damn...why lie about your age and place of birth? I've known quiet a few people, one that I did date who lied about where they were from. One thing I can say is, the saying is true "if you'll lie, you'll cheat, and if you'll cheat you'll steal." I'm just not into hooking up or having friends with benefits. I never have been into that, never have done that. Seems to be an issue for men and even women. Like girl...I'm just your friend, why are you worried about my sex life. I've never been one to judge others for their sexual adventures. I think women should be allowed to do what they want sexually without being demonized, fuck who you want or don't fuck who you want. Anyway, they say is a special type of hell to live in a hook up society but be a hopeless romantic. That's me. I just want to have a deep emotional connection with the man I'm going to have sex with. I want to know in my heart that we will get married. If I feel there is no future, I'm not sexing you.
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Post by shady81 on Dec 1, 2016 13:58:13 GMT -8
I remember when I was on vacation this past summer with my aunt and I told her I don't ever see myself getting married. I mean I might want to one day but me and my husband's marriage would be weird because I'm such an introvert that I like to be alone most of the time (That's just me.) But I don't know how he'll feel. But the only thing he would have to do is share in the cookin, share in the cleaning, make sweet love to me real good. And let me be alone to myself, don't get on my nerves or have me worried (As if he would notice anyway.) Just that simple.
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Post by MelaninMonroe on Dec 5, 2016 22:13:59 GMT -8
I remember when I was on vacation this past summer with my aunt and I told her I don't ever see myself getting married. I mean I might want to one day but me and my husband's marriage would be weird because I'm such an introvert that I like to be alone most of the time (That's just me.) But I don't know how he'll feel. But the only thing he would have to do is share in the cookin, share in the cleaning, make sweet love to me real good. And let me be alone to myself, don't get on my nerves or have me worried (As if he would notice anyway.) Just that simple. Girl I feel you. I don't know if I want to get married as well. That's a big commitment and I just don't think I would be a good wife. I love my space far too much. I fall into spells where I absolutely need to be alone in order to recharge. Can't just kick my own husband out of the house. Him being in another room simply wouldn't do. But, having been in love before I think it's something that would work seeing as how when I'm in love with someone, I want them around. And those moments where I want to be alone simply become me wanting him around but also wanting him to be quiet.
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